A course in SPEAKING UP for women who want more … in life, love, and business
With KAVITA RANI ARORA
Have you ever been in a situation that goes something like this?
You’re in a meeting and the discussion is getting heated. As you politely await your turn to speak, someone steals the words right out of your mouth. You kick yourself because, yet again, your brilliance is contained because you second-guessed yourself, and someone else got credit and kudos for your idea.
Let’s get more personal with the situation:
Or, maybe you’re talking to a group of girlfriends who want to go on a wild girl’s weekend in Cabo. You don’t drink much, if at all, but instead of stating your preferences, you end up tagging along… driving everywhere, splitting restaurant bills with huge bar tabs, and taking care of anyone who can’t handle their liquor.
Finally, let’s look at a more intimate situation:
You’re with your husband, who has been scouring every electronics store in town for a brand new state-of-the-art speaker system. You’re supposed to be saving money, and you’ve been giving up the things you want—new outfits, mani/pedis, and your pricey private yoga lessons in order to build toward your mutual goal.
Out of nowhere, your husband decides to invite his boss two levels up to your home for dinner—and gets his mind set on these speakers as an investment in his career, even though he’s long felt that your self-care is frivolous and high maintenance.
Although these situations seem different, in reality they all come back to one basic skill—speaking up for yourself!
Are there things you wish you could say, but don’t because you’re afraid you might hurt someone by saying them? Or, maybe you get to your edge and blurt them out in a stressed way, and the other person ends up not hearing you?
Do you want to find a more mature and fulfilling way of getting what you want, without being demanding, overbearing, whiny, desperate, controlling, conceited, entitled, or manipulative?
- Is it hard for you to admit that you are going through challenges and difficulties because you are trying to maintain a facade of perfection? (and, you’re afraid you will get hurt if you share)
- Are you exhausted by trying to maintain this facade of perfection because you want to look good? (but deep inside, you long to feel safe enough to share).
- Do you constantly feel trapped in comparison with other women who seem to naturally and effortlessly attract the things they want?
- Are you yearning to be more present and grounded with yourself, family, friends and clients, but distracted by the noisy voice in your head? (you know … that keeps talking to you about how much you have to do or says negative things to you about your body or other things that are wrong with you)
- Are you turning to wine, food, shopping, TV or other distractions to escape the anxiety you’re feeling about whatever it is in your life that isn’t working – you’re not feeling as connected as you want to your partner, you don’t have a partner and you really want one, you know you have more potential, but somehow you’re just not reaching it … or (fill in the blank)?
Are there things you wish you could say, but don’t because you’re afraid you might hurt someone by saying them? Or, maybe you get to your edge and blurt them out in a stressed way, and the other person ends up not hearing you?
Do you want to find a more mature and fulfilling way of getting what you want, without being demanding, overbearing, whiny, desperate, controlling, conceited, entitled, or manipulative?
- Is it hard for you to admit that you are going through challenges and difficulties because you are trying to maintain a facade of perfection? (and, you’re afraid you will get hurt if you share).
- Are you exhausted by trying to maintain this facade of perfection because you want to look good? (but deep inside, you long to feel safe enough to share).
- Do you constantly feel trapped in comparison with other women who seem to naturally and effortlessly attract the things they want?
- Are you yearning to be more present and grounded with yourself, family, friends and clients, but distracted by the noisy voice in your head? (you know … that keeps talking to you about how much you have to do or says negative things to you about your body or other things that are wrong with you).
- Are you turning to wine, food, shopping, TV or other distractions to escape the anxiety you’re feeling about whatever it is in your life that isn’t working – you’re not feeling as connected as you want to your partner, you don’t have a partner and you really want one, you know you have more potential, but somehow you’re just not reaching it … or (fill in the blank)?
Am I reading your mind? If so, it’s because I’ve felt all of that too.
When I started understanding and honoring my deepest desires, finding my hidden voice and speaking up, and actively creating the life and business I dreamed of, I found the fulfillment and peace I’d been craving for years…
“Kavita Leela is a true leader and way-shower for women who are ready to transcend cycles of disconnection and dissatisfaction, and step into their power. As we learn how to identify what we want, have the courageous conversations necessary, and step into our desires, we create a healthier and more prosperous world for all. Kavita is lighting the path.”
“With Kavita’s guidance and soul-wisdom, I have been able to show up more fully in my business. She is the perfect embodiment of truth speaking from her heart. Kavita is a living, breathing example of what courageous, soulful conversations look like. In her found courage, she gives us all permission to do the same.
She demonstrates what the liberation of your hidden voice looks like through her own personal walk in life. Having courageous conversations had been a life-long challenge of mine, and recently it started showing up in my business. I didn’t want to make waves, hurt anyone’s feelings, have others think poorly of me or speak passionately on something and then be wrong.
So I avoided FULLY sharing my truth when those awkward or scary instances came up in business. And life has a funny way of sharing signs with you to get you more aligned with your soul’s desires. [In walks Kavita]
With Kavita’s guidance and soul-wisdom, I have been able to show up more fully in my business. It is at the intersection of honoring my boundaries and courageous compassion, that I have found my sanctuary of peace. I’ve been able to speak from a space of love that does not compromise or run over my voice.
I have such deep reverence and gratitude towards Kavita , for her bravery and heroism in sharing with others that IT IS possible to speak soulfully aligned.
Her work is changing how we show up in this world. It is helping to change the world, one person at a time.”
Too many women have their voices stuck inside them, or they speak in ways others can’t hear. I long to liberate your voices and help you to speak with courage and in ways that get heard. Silenced voices prevent women from having healthy relationships, making the money they deserve to make, enjoying vibrant health, and so much more.
You’re a bright woman. So, why is it that when it comes to getting what you want, you find yourself second-guessing yourself and your desires, and struggling to communicate effectively with others about what you want?
You may have been accused of coming across as being aggressive or like a bulldozer. Or, you may judge yourself for being a doormat and not speaking up and asking for what you want.
You likely discount your needs, desires, and wants on a regular basis.
Your desires are important. Your needs are important.
And, there’s an art to getting what you want from a wholehearted place. It’s called courageous conversations.
The problem is that we don’t know how to have these conversations. Most of us were shown and taught to either demand what we want, or to put ourselves last and not ask. So we really don’t know how.
The other issue is that our society tends to judge women harshly for how we express ourselves. Fearful of speaking up, and we’re called “too soft”. Expressive of our opinions, and we’re considered “demanding”.
Because we haven’t been taught how to express ourselves with clarity while creating connection, and because we’ve been judged so harshly by society and the people around us…we’ve lost this art of communication.
That’s why I have created this course, The HeART of Getting What You Want. It’s all about learning how to identify what you want in life and business, learning the art of having wholehearted courageous conversations, and taking the steps to radically shift your life from a good life to an absolutely extraordinary life.
There is a radical transformation that can happen because of conversations.
Conversations have the power to change the trajectory of your life. Just one single conversation can change everything.
One conversation with your team or colleagues could take you from feeling chronically unsupported and like you’re doing it all yourself, to feeling totally supported, carefree and released. You might even be able able to take vacation, and relax knowing that things are getting done without your constant input.
A single conversation with your partner about your deepest yearnings in your relationship could have you going from feeling more like roommates than partners to falling in love again and feeling sexually and emotionally fulfilled.
Learning how to have open-hearted courageous conversation that invite clients in can multiply your abundance, allow you to work less, and have more free time to enjoy your life.
Courageous Conversations have changed my life, and I know they can change yours. Here’s a little bit of my story.
I did all the things you are supposed to do in life to be happy and successful, but I was miserable on the inside. I knew I was meant to do and be more …
When we don’t Speak Up, we end up following some external script … rather than following our own inner truth. I’m a former successful lawyer who left the Fortune 500-paved life everyone else wanted for me. Because, when I was finally honest with myself there was a TRULY abundant life my SOUL wanted that looked completely different from everyone else’s expectations.
How did THAT happen? Well, that story is a bit longer.
I was raised in a traditional Indian family, by parents who only wanted the best for me.
I attended an ivy-league university and studied at Wharton School of Business earning a B.S. in Economics. I then went on to get my law degree, and worked at one Fortune 500 Company after another as my career advanced. I married a wonderful man. I gave birth to a beautiful son. We bought our dream house.
But even though my life looked perfect on paper, inside I felt unfulfilled.
Although I was grateful for “having it all” – my gorgeous little family and the career and financial success I was experiencing…
Something was missing.
I had worked hard to get the “right education,” land a “great job,” and enjoy “the good life,” yet I couldn’t escape the nagging feeling that I wasn’t living up to my full potential.
Night after night I went to sleep feeling unfulfilled. Morning after morning I went back to life as I knew it. I numbed my deeper longings with distractions like TV, food, alcohol, and shopping, and told myself everything would be fine. I felt increasingly trapped.
To be honest, those were dark years.
I had always known that I was born to do something special, even though I didn’t quite know what it was yet, let alone having any idea how to accomplish it.
(Can you relate at all?)
I wanted to make my vision real, and I wanted to help others do the same. I wanted to feel more free and help others to free themselves, yet I was:
- Imprisoned inside of myself (but feeling like it was ungrateful to feel that way so I pushed this feeling down).
- Confused about what my vision was (so, how could I go after it and make it real?).
- Doubting whether I had what it took to make my vision real.
- Crying over my failing marriage.
- Trying to convince myself that, since I had everything I was supposed to want, everything was fine.
- Depressed and sometimes wanting to end it all, but not wanting to leave my son without his mommy.
- Imprisoned inside of myself (but feeling like it was ungrateful to feel that way so I pushed this feeling down).
- Confused about what my vision was (so, how could I go after it and make it real?).
- Doubting whether I had what it took to make my vision real.
- Crying over my failing marriage.
- Trying to convince myself that, since I had everything I was supposed to want, everything was fine.
- Depressed and sometimes wanting to end it all, but not wanting to leave my son without his mommy.
And, my solution to my pain?
More numbing through distractions.
Then, one day I literally ended up on my knees in humiliation and shame. In that moment, I knew that if I didn’t go all in and transform myself, I would destroy myself and possibly others.
I HAD TO…
- Listen to that hidden voice inside of me and follow my inner wisdom instead of using food and wine to “shut up” the hidden voice.
- Learn how to Speak Up and be honest with myself and my loved ones about what was and wasn’t working in my life, through empowering and courageous conversations.
- Commit to my own transformation as though my life depended on it, because it did (including investing in myself in unprecedented ways like hiring mentors, taking online classes, getting lots of coaching training).
- Go all-in with my vision – this involved figuring out what my vision was, making a plan to make it happen, and following that plan (even when fear and doubt tried to take me out because I was really scared about investing all this money and time in myself and my business).
- Walk my talk – Admit that if I wanted to support other visionaries in speaking up and making their dreams real, I had to go for mine with gusto.
I HAD TO…
- Listen to that hidden voice inside of me and follow my inner wisdom instead of using food and wine to “shut up” the hidden voice.
- Learn how to Speak Up and be honest with myself and my loved ones about what was and wasn’t working in my life, through empowering and courageous conversations.
- Commit to my own transformation as though my life depended on it, because it did (including investing in myself in unprecedented ways like hiring mentors, taking online classes, getting lots of coaching training).
- Go all-in with my vision – this involved figuring out what my vision was, making a plan to make it happen, and following that plan (even when fear and doubt tried to take me out because I was really scared about investing all this money and time in myself and my business).
- Walk my talk – Admit that if I wanted to support other visionaries in speaking up and making their dreams real, I had to go for mine with gusto.
It was time for me to live in truth and in alignment with myself – to find the courage to have all the conversations I had been avoiding because I didn’t know how, or I thought I couldn’t have them.
I sought out mentors and teachers to help me learn to listen to my own inner wisdom. And through that inner wisdom came The Daily Nirvana Method. From there, I changed the whole trajectory of my life.
I FOUND THE COURAGE TO TALK:
- With my husband about what wasn’t working in our marriage and about the fact that I wanted to leave my 6-figure contract negotiation work and start my own business.
- With my conservative Indian parents about how I wanted to start sharing openly about all I had been through, including experiences I was previously afraid to share publicly.
- And, last, but most importantly, with myself about what patterns I had created that had led to the moment that had literally brought me to my knees in humiliation and shame.
I FOUND THE COURAGE TO TALK:
- With my husband about what wasn’t working in our marriage and about the fact that I wanted to leave my 6-figure contract negotiation work and start my own business.
- With my conservative Indian parents about how I wanted to start sharing openly about all I had been through, including experiences I was previously afraid to share publicly.
- And, last, but most importantly, with myself about what patterns I had created that had led to the moment that had literally brought me to my knees in humiliation and shame.
Through these conversations my life has changed in immeasurable ways, and I have manifested things I never thought possible.
- My husband and I have learned so much about being better partners to each other (he even completed one year of relationship coaching with me… this from a man who didn’t used to believe in working on the relationship!).
- I started my dream business and hit 6-figures in 14 months with similar success in later years.
- I have reached a place of freedom and love that I never thought I’d reach in my relationship with my parents.
- Together, my husband and I manifested his company relocating us from NJ to gorgeous Southern California. (When I first brought it up to him, he said there was no way it would happen. And, yet, here we are!)
- And as I write this, I’m sitting outside, in my resort-like backyard with a view of the mountains and surrounding acreage. Pinch me, I must be dreaming!
Does this mean my life is perfect and in a pretty little box? No, not at all. Like you, I’m a woman on a mission and there’s always a next level. So, I’ll always be using Courageous Conversations to help me actualize my potential.
“Kavita is a master at having courageous conversations and I have seen her model them over and over again. She has a gift to go straight to the heart of what matters. It doesn’t matter if it’s with a client, a friend or a colleague, you can count on Kavita to go deep, be real and come from love.”
“Kavita Leela is the perfect person to get coaching and mentorship when it comes to having Courageous Conversations. She is the embodiment of speaking your truth in a way that can be received and heard. She has taught me a ton about owning my truth and how to share my feelings and thoughts in a powerful way. She really knows how to ground into the truth so that courage naturally builds and having these type of conversations don’t have to feel really “hard” but feel uplifting and powerful for everyone involved. If you want to step into your truth and courage, I highly recommend Kavita Leela!”
“On the spot, I came up with a completely unconsidered idea for making money.
I was trying to understand how to navigate a set of pain points my husband and I were having around money, that continued to cause miscommunication and conflict in our relationship at the most inopportune times (like right before we intended to buy a home!).
I was trying to manifest common ground between my husband and I, to an end to a back and forth that had been going on for years, and to make more money in my business to ease the tension in the short term.
Kavita openly shared similar experiences she’s had in her relationships. The biggest thing was her desire for me to speak my pain out loud instead of bury it, which is my usual strategy for dealing with problems. I’m so used to trying to be mature and see the other person’s side that I sometimes I ignore my own pain and needs.
The second thing is we talked through the idea of being self-reliant and looking at my mature skill sets and how I could use those to show my husband that I was getting everything as solid as possible in my business, as soon as possible. On the spot, I came up with a completely unconsidered idea for making money.
Kavita truly embodies her message of speaking up. Just by knowing her, I’ve learned the simple-but-not-easy skill set of speaking up about my preferences. I am usually the person who has to give in and also the one who doesn’t think to even ask for modifications.
I’ve learned to ask for what I want in low-risk situations like ordering dinner and asking for modifications that would make me happier. I graduated to speaking my preferences in situations where a group is trying to make a decision.
And lastly I learned that my inability to do these things is really a disservice to everyone, because it’s a version of avoidance, of disconnection, and of lack of vulnerability. By communicating with intention, you can deepen your relationships with people and get messy with them, so they understand who you really are… even if it makes you feel “difficult.
I would 100% recommend Kavita and her work. We all struggle with conversations, yet a conversation can solve so many of our problems. I’ve started applying the concepts I’ve learned from Kavita across my entire life.”
It’s time for women to Speak Up!
Keeping our voices quiet in order to be liked or to appease others, or… being overbearing and demanding to get what we want… doesn’t work.
Either way, we’re left unfulfilled.
Somewhere along the way, we got the idea that to be happy, fulfilled, and liked, we had to:
- Keep our true thoughts and feelings to ourselves because sharing them was selfish or wrong or would rock the boat too much.
- Be “nice” in order to be liked by others.
- “Toughen up” in order to appear confident and get by.
- “Do the right thing”, even if it doesn’t feel right to us.
- Hide behind a facade of perfection because being vulnerable in sharing our true feelings could leave us open to other people judging, taking advantage of, or hurting us.
- Follow a formula – that if we just did what we were supposed to, our lives would be all that we wanted them to be.
Somewhere along the way, we got the idea that to be happy, fulfilled, and liked, we had to:
- Keep our true thoughts and feelings to ourselves because sharing them was selfish or wrong or would rock the boat too much.
- Be “nice” in order to be liked by others.
- “Toughen up” in order to appear confident and get by.
- “Do the right thing”, even if it doesn’t feel right to us.
- Hide behind a facade of perfection because being vulnerable in sharing our true feelings could leave us open to other people judging, taking advantage of, or hurting us.
- Follow a formula – that if we just did what we were supposed to, our lives would be all that we wanted them to be.
As women, finding and expressing our hidden voice is important.
I say this as someone who used to stifle my feelings, needs, desires, and dreams, and as someone who has worked with hundreds of women who struggle with knowing what they want, let alone actually going for it.. We all have fallen into the trap of thinking that what we want and need isn’t a priority and often comes last…or worse, that we don’t even deserve it. We often turn our back on ourselves and put ourselves last which leaves us feeling empty, unfulfilled and with so much less to give to our loved ones. Why do we need to be trained to speak our truth? Because we have been trained out of it.
When you express your needs and desires, everyone benefits.
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If you don’t connect with and Speak Up about your true feelings, it will impact your health and ability to be present for those you love.
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If you don’t follow your dreams, you will have less energy for everything, including your work, family and friends.
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If you push down your hidden voice, and fill the emptiness with distractions like TV, the internet, food, wine, shopping, etc., you won’t fully create the life and impact you’re here for.
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If you doubt the validity of your desires and put yourself and your happiness last, you will feel depleted and resentful, and have less to give to your family, friends and mission
When you express your needs and desires, everyone benefits.
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If you don’t connect with and speak up about your true feelings, it will impact your health and ability to be present for those you love.
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If you don’t follow your dreams, you will have less energy for everything, including your work, family and friends.
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If you push down your hidden voice, and fill the emptiness with distractions like TV, the internet, food, wine, shopping, etc., you won’t fully create the life and impact you’re here for.
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If you doubt the validity of your desires and put yourself and your happiness last, you will feel depleted and resentful, and have less to give to your family, friends and mission.
A new era of women’s leadership is here. It calls upon you to find your hidden voice and Speak Up from deep inside. It requires you to put yourself, your needs, your desires, and your transformation first. When you do this, your heart will be at peace. And, you will finally “be the change” you were born to be.
World peace unfolds from a heart at peace.
Speak Up from your heart at peace.
“Kavita is the perfect person to help you with your courageous conversation because she brings the energy of the regal queen and teaches you to find it within yourself.
This means that you will be capable of showing up to the conversation completely open-hearted and ready to stand in your strength and sovereignty while hearing and loving the other party through their side of it.“
“Kavita Leela has been a tremendous support for me over the past 7 years that I’ve known her in having difficult conversations. She is my go-to coach when I need help with a challenging situation at work or in my personal relationships, and I always leave feeling more empowered and ready to face anything. With her unique background in law, business and personal empowerment coaching, Kavita Leela brings fresh perspectives to any conversation I need to have.“
“Speak Up with Kavita is vastly important work that has been long due for women, and has had a profoundly positive impact in my life. In giving permission to women in having their voices heard, Kavita has lovingly created a powerful dialogue with a diversity of leaders that inspires, encourages and ignites one’s inner voice.
Having always ‘thought’ that I spoke my mind, I actually realized I had been hiding many of my unspoken thoughts, ideas and needs in fear. From her summit, I was able to communicate my unspoken needs and desires to my partner & also have those “uncomfortable conversations” with others that without her work would have been not as easy or graceful. I have now felt comfortable setting boundaries, and in expressing what I need from those around me with genuine caring, authenticity and a loving authority.
She helped me deepen my own practice of learning how to better listen to others and their desires while more proudly voicing my needs with reciprocal respect, tenderness and grace. These are the foundations that every woman should be given. She helped create an opening and space that it was not only okay for me to express these needs, but that it is integral. Kavita and her message is really for any woman who is ready to experience the real definition of success in all areas of their life.
Journeying with Kavita through Speak Up honestly has changed my life, and has been one of the most important pieces of work that has come my way.”
INTRODUCING
A course in Speaking Up for women who want more … in life, love, and business.
This course in speaking up is about tuning into and finding your hidden voice – doing the deep inner excavation – so you can truly transform and find the freedom within yourself to ask for what you want … and get it.
The Transformation Star will help us get insight into what areas of your life most need to shift. We will be using this tool to give us a clear picture of where your life is out of alignment with your deepest desires and needs.
You will learn to Speak Up for what you want and need from the loving truth, from a open heart so you don’t have to either fight or flee. You can stay there, be present, navigate conflicts, and sometimes even create miracles.
Each week we will dive deep into one area – your Transformation Focus for the week – so you can ensure you have a clear plan to make your vision real. We will clarify your vision and make it happen with a step-by-step plan.
A COURSE IN SPEAKING UP
Weekly Transformational Audio
Audio about the deep inner and outer work it takes to find your hidden voice and make your vision real.
Weekly Transformational PLAYbook
A beautiful playbook designed to support you as you listen to the audio and write your reflections.
Weekly Group Coaching with Kavita
An incubator for you to try these tools, to get feedback on the courageous conversations you need to have, but aren’t yet ready, and to practice with me and others.
A Sisterhood that witnesses and supports you,
so you can get her support and connect with the other ladies in the course. Some of your conversations will be miraculous, so we will cheer for you in the private Facebook group when those miracles occur.
Guest Mentor Trainings
Interviews with amazing teachers about how to Speak Up From Your Heart so you can find your hidden voice and live up to your true potential.
Lifetime Membership
You’ll receive access to this program and the community, year after year, for the lifetime of the course. This means that every I run the program, you will get to participate in it again, live.
Here’s what we will be going over each week in each course module. Click on the plus sign (+) next to the module title to find out more.
WEEK 1 Transformation Focus : Your Dreams, Desires, and Needs
We will dive deep with the Transformation Star (pictured above) to tune into where your life is out alignment with your dreams, desires, and needs so we can get clear on areas of focus for the rest of the program.
- How to distinguish between “healthy” and “unhealthy” desires and how to discern which one you having.
- Learn to be truthful about what your heart and soul desires by accessing your Oracle of Inner Wisdom.
- Why you following your soul’s desires is essential to healing the world.
- The best practice for honoring your desires in your daily life.
- Learn to use the Daily Nirvana Desire Toolkit so you can feel more fulfilled every day.
WEEK 2 Transformation Focus : Obstacles to Your Desire Fulfillment
We will take a deep dive into the patterns that get in the way of you committing to and manifesting your desires, dreams, and inner peace.
- The trinity of conflicts that is interfering with desire fulfillment.
- The 9 Main Areas of Conflict that disturb inner peace and prevent you from manifesting your potential.
- Work through your conflicts so you are free to do your Great Work and live your Great Life.
- Feel peace, now matter what’s happening around you.
- How to overcome the obstacles to fulfilling your deepest desires.
WEEK 3 Transformation Focus : HeART of Courageous Conversation
You’ll learn the HeART of Courageous Conversations, the key tool to help you ask for what you want and get what you need in life, love and work, including:
- How to Speak Up from your heart.
- When to Speak Up and when not to.
- An amazing process that will help you identify and break whatever pattern is in the way of reaching your full potential. Or, if next level is all you’re after .. that too!
- How to stay in Daily Nirvana, no matter how bad the breakdown
- Identify your communication archetype and which one causes you the most problems.
- Get okay with your anger and learn how to express your anger in ways that aren’t hurtful to yourself or others.
WEEK 4 Transformation Focus : Get What You Want in Life
We will explore how you can enhance your presence, charisma and influence, create an inspiring version of your personal story, and explore the HeART of your power. The key to all of this lies in the base of the Transformation Star – your relationships with yourself, the universe and others.
- How to use your presence to change things, without having to say a word.
- Transmute the energy of your fear and challenges and harness it as a force for positive change.
- Learn how not to get derailed by setbacks and get back into your power quickly (one of the most powerful skills in business and in life!).
- How to release your past, stop worrying about the future and step squarely into the delicious present. (let go of toxic emotions like resentment, guilt, and shame.)
- Identify the top personality trait that gets in your way and get it handled in an easy, fun way.
- Take radical responsibility for your circumstances – love your choices and your past, and find the jewels in your wounds.
- Plug your power leaks and wield your power with truth and love.
WEEK 5 Transformation Focus : Deepening Love & Relationships
We will support you in finding your hidden voice in romantic partnership, family relationships, and friendships. There’s far too much that goes unsaid in these key relationships, and it’s time to Speak Up with love, be heard, and get more of what you want.
- How to set healthy boundaries that aren’t too rigid and aren’t too soft.
- A transformative practice that will help you connect to, heal and stabilize your inner feelings, no matter how troubling or difficult.
- Learn to say what you are afraid to say (don’t worry, I won’t try and get you to say anything you’re not ready to say).
- The best way to “change” your partner … or, anyone else, or anything in your life you want to change.
- See clearly how your dynamic with your parents is playing into the way you hide your voice.
- Magnetize the sisterhood and support you long for.
WEEK 6 Transformation Focus : Where You Stand in Your Work
We will explore what you stand for, what you were born to do, ….and that which you are afraid to claim. This work is integral to you finding your hidden voice. You are unique and special and have gifts that only you can give; when you tune into what those gifts are, you will have so much more clarity and confidence in speaking up for what you want and need … whether you are a mom, an entrepreneur and/or have a job.
- We will tune into what you are stand for in your mission; from there we will look at where you back down from taking a stand and why.
- Deeply see the places where you back away from that thing you say you stand for and learn to stand for it fully.
- How to get over the fraud factor and whether you are good enough to call yourself a leader.
- Fabulous tools to clarify your purpose, define your mission, and create your dream vision – all from the rock-solid foundation of your Big Why. This foundation will help you overcome the obstacles and fear you’ll inevitably face as you grow your business and/or step into your mission as a leader in whatever organization you are a part of.
WEEK 7 Transformation Focus : HeART of Negotiation
I will teach you how Speak Up to get what you want in business and make more money whether you have your own business or a job. I’ll also share my best negotiation secrets so you can negotiate what you want and need in a way that feels great (these negotiation skills are useful both in business and life).
- Selling is so tough for most of you and you avoid it. We will deepen into this perspective shift: Selling is service. Done right, you are deeply listening and empathizing with your dream client (Even if you don’t have your own business, we are really selling and negotiating all the time, so this information will be useful to you).
- Learn how to have aligned and deep sales conversations – sell in a way that feels good and not icky … sales that feels like heartfelt sharing and that you can’t wait to get out there and do! Sales that feels authentic, aligned and alive (You can use these tools in your business and personal life).
- For those who are in a job, I’ll walk you through how to express yourself in relationships with your boss and co-workers and how to ask for raises, and promotions and negotiating remote working arrangements, etc.
- 3 Negotiation Secrets that will exponentially increase your business and personal success.
- Embody your Courageous Presence so you can create a new archetype for who you will be in live, love, and work.
- Practices for strengthening your power to stand in your Courageous Presence.
WEEK 8 Transformation Focus : Prosperity Plan
We will create a Prosperity Plan for you that weaves in everything we have explored on this rich journey so you can define what prosperity means to you across life, love, and work and stay in action around what’s most important to you. This plan will include all of the conversations you have determined you need to have in order to create both a life you love and one that fulfills your bigger mission.
- Discover what aligned action really is and why it’s essential to getting all you want.
- Design your path to Courageous Conversations.
- Learn how to take just a few powerful actions that will increase your inner peace way more than you would expect.
- Create a prosperity plan that aligns your reality with your desires.
- Discover how to stand for other people and their self-expression.
- Cultivate Courageous Conversations as a practice, especially in times of conflict.
WHAT YOU’LL RECEIVE IN THE COURSE
Weekly Transformation Audio and Playbook
Each Monday morning for eight weeks, you’ll receive an email to let you know that a new audio and playbook is available on the membership site (pictured at left). You can download the materials, or look at them on your phone … whatever works for you. I’ll share easily digestible chunks of information so you can make meaningful progress and. I’ll also share take doable transformative actions for the week (meaning they won’t be too time-consuming).
8 Weeks of Live Group Coaching With Kavita
In addition to the weekly course module, I’ll be providing lots of live support to answer your questions and provide laser coaching. This will be our practice time together, our incubator sessions-where I will work with you, roll our sleeves up, and try this stuff out, real life, real time – this is the place to bring your deep stuff. I will be supporting, guiding, and loving you as you learn to Speak Up and have the courage to say what needs to be said from your heart. We will dive deep into finding your hidden voice and expressing it in your life, love and work.
Sisterhood
We will invite you to join the HeART of Getting What You Want Facebook group This is where you will receive witnessing, love, support, feedback, accountability and more. My team and I cultivated this safe space for you to ask questions, share breakthroughs and insights and let us know what you are up to. It’s not a place for promoting your work or for venting. You will experience loving and supportive sisterhood and support at an unprecedented level.
Lifetime Membership
You’ll receive access to this program every time we offer it, for the lifetime of the course. This is important because these conversations never stop … wherever you are in life, whatever potential you are trying to reach, Courageous Conversations will be a tool you will use to fulfill your needs and desires in life, love, and work. Welcome to our community!
Instant Access to Transformation Toolkit
As soon as you enroll, you’ll receive immediate access to the Transformation Toolkit. I’ll share key principles and practices that will help you get the most out of the course.
GUEST MENTOR TRAINING
I’ve gathered some amazing interviews with world-renowned teachers so you can find your hidden voice and Speak Up from there. These are a selection of the interviews from the Speak Up From Your Heart VideoJam – Here they are:
Christine Arylo
LiYana Silver
Toni Bergins
Nisha Moodley
Elayne Kalila
Ariel Spilsbury
Kc Baker
Cory Michelle
Jen Mavros
Tanya Lynn
Jonathan Bender
Sara Avant Stover
“Kavita Leela is a stance for truth and empowerment. She pushes your edges while gently inviting parts of you that are wanting to be expressed. She is both a delight to be around yet fierce in what she stands for and what she will hold for you (your truth, your bigger vision). With Kavita Leela by your side, you feel heard and you feel strong. And you know that she will cut through the BS and tease out what is yearning to be said.“
“Kavita Leela is a beautiful example of “practicing what she preaches”! She is having Courageous Conversations all the time in her personal and professional life. This devotion to her truth makes her the perfect woman to coach others to find their true voice and express it in the world.
I am grateful to have worked with her and received the attentive listening she provides as well as getting practical action steps to take on behalf of my truth, presented in a kind and loving way.
She models honesty and compassion- qualities that are essential to learn when we are facing up to our fears, and getting ready to have difficult conversations.“
“When you think about it, all of life is communication – with yourself and others. That’s why I’m so pleased to see the work that Kavita Leela Arora is doing in the world. Most of us are so scared of having the conversations that we most need to have. We fear that we’ll either speak up and be misunderstood (with potentially disastrous consequences) or we opt to stay quiet and find ourselves eventually resenting all the things we never said.
In steps Kavita, and lovingly guides women to first tell themselves the truth – and then to share that truth with others in a way that not only achieves the desired outcome, but strengthens the connection and deepens the love between both parties.
Kavita’s profound listening skills, empathy, and creative approach to problem-solving are a true, unique gift to the world and I cannot recommend her work highly enough.“
Here’s how to know if this course is right for you…
- Your life looks good (or, even great), on the outside, but you know there is more that is possible.
- You are committed to finding and going for that elusive something more.
- You enjoy transformation (you may even love it!).
- You’re excited to do the deep inner excavation required to find your hidden voice.
- You know that there are things you wish you could say that you aren’t saying because you don’t know how to say them, or are afraid to say them.
- You’re ready to fully stand with an open heart for what you believe in your work and in your life.
Here’s how to know if this course is right for you…
- You love the idea of being in a loving and supportive community of women.
- Your life looks good (or, even great), on the outside, but you know there is more that is possible.
- You are committed to finding and going for that elusive something more.
- You enjoy transformation (you may even love it!).
- You’re excited to do the deep inner excavation required to find your hidden voice.
- You know that there are things you wish you could say that you aren’t saying because you don’t know how to say them, or are afraid to say them.
- You know you were put on this planet to do something amazing (even if you don’t know what that is yet), and you’re ready to commit to clarifying your mission and making it happen.
RECAP OF WHAT’S INCLUDED…
Weekly Course Module: 8 chapters of coursework, with audio recordings and playbooks so you can find your hidden voice and Speak Up from your heart.
8 Weeks of Live Group Coaching With Kavita so you can get the support with actually having the courageous conversations you need to have to change the trajectory of your life.
Guest Mentor Trainings: Interviews with some amazing visionaries.
Sisterhood: A private Facebook group filled with amazing women you can be vulnerable with and trust
Instant Access to Transformation Toolkit: An interactive playbook and audio which will set you up to get the most out of the course.
RECAP OF WHAT’S INCLUDED…
Weekly Course Module: 8 chapters of coursework, with audio recordings and playbooks so you can find your hidden voice and Speak Up from your heart.
8 Weeks of Live Group Coaching With Kavita
Guest Mentor Trainings: Interviews with some amazing visionaries.
Sisterhood: A private Facebook group filled with amazing women you can be vulnerable with and trust
Instant Access to Transformation Toolkit: An interactive playbook and audio which will set you up to get the most out of the course.
“Kavita literally changed my life. I know that’s a big statement. She enabled me to look at a shameful event in my life with a new outlook. With her help, I was able to turn my painful experience into something that transformed me into a better wife, mother, friend, and business owner. Kavita is a catalyst for change for women and the world needs her brilliance TODAY. She has the power and wisdom to zone in and pinpoint exactly what isn’t working in your personal and professional life, what is needed and how to implement her teachings for lasting change. This course will change your life, I have no doubt because she changed mine and I will never be the same. Thank god for that.“
“Most women are not taught to speak their truth or ask for what they need in a way that stems from their true feminine power. We learn to be bulldozers or victims or passive aggressive manipulators – none of which reflect our power or ultimately get us what we desire. Kavita Leela Arora has devoted her deep wisdom and personal life experience to giving women the skills, tools, and self awareness to speak up from their heart, courageously and compassionately – now that is feminine power. Kavita has the spiritual depth and the practical life experience to be a great teacher, mentor and guide for any woman ready and willing to access and speak from her feminine power.”
“Kavita is THE coach for women who want to clear what’s blocking them from their truth and their voice.
In today’s fast paced market and world, over 5000 messages are ignored every single day. If you don’t want your message to be one of those, it’s important to have someone like Kavita who can hone in on who you TRULY are, what you are REALLY here to say, and connect you with the courage inside to go out and say it. Business success demands no less. Work with Kavita.”
DAILY NIRVANA PROMISE
I feel so devoted to your courageous conversations and your Daily Nirvana, and so committed to delivering great value in this course, that I offer you this Daily Nirvana Promise.
I want this course to contribute to your Daily Nirvana, you sense of inner peace and freedom to do, be and have what you want in life, love and business. You probably do, too. And while no one is going to feel Daily Nirvana all the time, I want you to feel that this course is supporting you in deepening your life satisfaction and peace.
To put your mind totally at ease, I’m giving you…
100% MONEY BACK GUARANTEE – IF YOU IMPLEMENT ALL OF THESE PRACTICES AND DON’T FIND THE VALUE PROMISED, YOU GET YOUR MONEY BACK. PERIOD.
This information can change your life, as it has mine. That’s why I’m so passionate about doing everything I can to support you in saying YES to yourself in this way. Plus, I want you to be MORE than satisfied with the value you receive in this program.
So here’s my invitation to you: Register for the program and if you’re not 100% thrilled with what you learn, there’s a 100% money-back guarantee.
If you come to the live group coaching calls and complete all of the coursework for the duration of the program,and you don’t find the value that I promised, I will happily refund your money. Plus you can keep your Transformation Toolkit. No hard feelings.
Fulfilment doesn’t come from checking off more boxes. It comes from finding your hidden voice and speaking up so you can create your own boxes. It’s alluring to believe that if you keep going after that next shiny object, you’ll find what you’re looking for in that elusive something more. The truth is that keys to the fulfillment you are seeking are inside you. It’s time to Speak Up so you don’t die with your music still left inside.
If you want to learn to fulfill your potential and you’re ready to get started today all you need to do is click the button above and enter your details into our secure order form. After that will receive confirmation in your inbox as well as a link to our private FB Group where you can start interacting with your new sisters today.
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I’d love to help you find your unique recipe for fulfillment, to find your hidden voice and express it so you can bring your dreams to life in love, work and beyond. If you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to reach out to support@dailynirvana.com
TO YOU AND YOUR EMERGING VOICE,
Kavita Leela Arora is a Women’s Leadership Coach and attorney who has 27 years of business experience, 15 years of Fortune 500 corporate experience and a lifetime of personal transformation and spiritual development. She brings all that skill to her mission of empowering women to Speak Up and prosper in life, love and work.
In 2011, she left a lucrative, but uninspiring corporate career and dove into her business, quickly magnetizing her dream clients, filling her practice within a month of opening it, and creating 6-figures in her first 14 months in business. She’s devoted to helping you achieve similar success, by your definition and on your terms.
Her work is based on the following belief: World peace unfolds from a heart at peace — Speak Up from your heart at peace. Kavita supports women to find Daily Nirvana in business and life through Courageous Conversations, her proprietary method to support women like you learn the art of asking for what you really want and get it. She dares, inspires and guides you to bring your WHOLE SELF to business and life … instead of holding back or pushing down parts of you that don’t “fit” into some mold.
She lives in Southern California with her supportive husband, Moneesh and her sweet son, Vijay.
“Most women are not taught to speak their truth or ask for what they need in a way that stems from their true feminine power. We learn to be bulldozers or victims or passive aggressive manipulators – none of which reflect our power or ultimately get us what we desire. Kavita Leela Arora has devoted her deep wisdom and personal life experience to giving women the skills, tools, and self awareness to speak up from their heart, courageously and compassionately – now that is feminine power. Kavita has the spiritual depth and the practical life experience to be a great teacher, mentor and guide for any woman ready and willing to access and speak from her feminine power.”
– Christine Arylo, spiritual catalyst, MBA, best-selling author, creator of the Feminine Super Powers
www.christinearylo.com
“Kavita Leela is a true leader and way-shower for women who are ready to transcend cycles of disconnection and dissatisfaction, and step into their power. As we learn how to identify what we want, have the courageous conversations necessary, and step into our desires, we create a healthier and more prosperous world for all. Kavita is lighting the path.”
Nisha Moodley | Women’s Leadership Coach & Founder of Global Sisterhood Day
“From the moment I met Kavita, I became aware of her larger than life presence, smarts and compassion. Qualities not easy to ignore but admire. She has a superb ability in teaching other woman the art of asking and having courageous conversations. Not an easy task, and yet she maneuvers this often ‘sticky’ situations with grace, and transparency. She’s personal, warm, and completed devoted to her mission of showing women HOW to SPEAK from their heart. I can’t be more honored to walk along the path this amazing modern priestess, and courageous leader.”
Elizabeth Stomp | Transformational Life Coach & Spiritual Midwife
www.elizabethstomp.com
“Kavita Leela is the perfect person to get coaching and mentorship when it comes to having Courageous Conversations. She is the embodiment of speaking your truth in a way that can be received and heard. She has taught me a ton about owning my truth and how to share my feelings and thoughts in a powerful way. She really knows how to ground into the truth so that courage naturally builds and having these type of conversations don’t have to feel really “hard” but feel uplifting and powerful for everyone involved. If you want to step into your truth and courage, I highly recommend Kavita Leela!”
Tara Butler Floch | Business Mentor and Coach
“Kavita is the perfect person to help you with your courageous conversation because she is capable of showing up with the energy of a regal queen and teaching you to show up the same way.
This means that you will be capable of showing up to the conversation completely open-hearted and ready to stand in your strength and sovereignty while hearing and loving the other party through their side of it.“
Theresa Vee | Mentor and Teacher
“Kavita Leela is a stance for truth and empowerment. She pushes your edges while gently inviting parts of you that are wanting to be expressed. She is both a delight to be around yet fierce in what she stands for and what she will hold for you (your truth, your bigger vision). With Kavita Leela by your side, you feel heard and you feel strong. And you know that she will cut through the BS and tease out what is yearning to be said.“
Ashley Maina | Transformational Coach for Women
“Kavita is a master at having courageous conversations and I have seen her model them over and over again. She has a gift to go straight to the heart of what matters. It doesn’t matter if it’s with a client, a friend or a colleague, you can count on Kavita to go deep, be real and come from love.”
Tanya Lynn | Sistership Circle founder
“Most women are not taught to speak their truth or ask for what they need in a way that stems from their true feminine power. We learn to be bulldozers or victims or passive aggressive manipulators – none of which reflect our power or ultimately get us what we desire. Kavita Leela Arora has devoted her deep wisdom and personal life experience to giving women the skills, tools, and self awareness to speak up from their heart, courageously and compassionately – now that is feminine power. Kavita has the spiritual depth and the practical life experience to be a great teacher, mentor and guide for any woman ready and willing to access and speak from her feminine power.”
– Christine Arylo, spiritual catalyst, MBA, best-selling author, creator of the Feminine Super Powers
www.christinearylo.com
“Kavita Leela is a true leader and way-shower for women who are ready to transcend cycles of disconnection and dissatisfaction, and step into their power. As we learn how to identify what we want, have the courageous conversations necessary, and step into our desires, we create a healthier and more prosperous world for all. Kavita is lighting the path.”
Nisha Moodley | Women’s Leadership Coach & Founder of Global Sisterhood Day
“From the moment I met Kavita, I became aware of her larger than life presence, smarts and compassion. Qualities not easy to ignore but admire. She has a superb ability in teaching other woman the art of asking and having courageous conversations. Not an easy task, and yet she maneuvers this often ‘sticky’ situations with grace, and transparency. She’s personal, warm, and completed devoted to her mission of showing women HOW to SPEAK from their heart. I can’t be more honored to walk along the path this amazing modern priestess, and courageous leader.”
Elizabeth Stomp | Transformational Life Coach & Spiritual Midwife
www.elizabethstomp.com
“Kavita Leela is the perfect person to get coaching and mentorship when it comes to having Courageous Conversations. She is the embodiment of speaking your truth in a way that can be received and heard. She has taught me a ton about owning my truth and how to share my feelings and thoughts in a powerful way. She really knows how to ground into the truth so that courage naturally builds and having these type of conversations don’t have to feel really “hard” but feel uplifting and powerful for everyone involved. If you want to step into your truth and courage, I highly recommend Kavita Leela!”
Tara Butler Floch | Business Mentor and Coach
“Kavita is the perfect person to help you with your courageous conversation because she is capable of showing up with the energy of a regal queen and teaching you to show up the same way.
This means that you will be capable of showing up to the conversation completely open-hearted and ready to stand in your strength and sovereignty while hearing and loving the other party through their side of it.“
Theresa Vee | Mentor and Teacher
“Kavita Leela is a stance for truth and empowerment. She pushes your edges while gently inviting parts of you that are wanting to be expressed. She is both a delight to be around yet fierce in what she stands for and what she will hold for you (your truth, your bigger vision). With Kavita Leela by your side, you feel heard and you feel strong. And you know that she will cut through the BS and tease out what is yearning to be said.“
Ashley Maina | Transformational Coach for Women
“Kavita is a master at having courageous conversations and I have seen her model them over and over again. She has a gift to go straight to the heart of what matters. It doesn’t matter if it’s with a client, a friend or a colleague, you can count on Kavita to go deep, be real and come from love.”
Tanya Lynn | Sistership Circle founder
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